I am not very pleased today as there seems to be a tremendous sharing of my links from yesterday. There are twice as many downloads as there are clicks to my blog/store. There is absolutely no reason for people to be delivering my file links when they can just refer directly back to my blog for free downloading. I am the only one who should be sharing my download links. I spend a lot of time putting together these free daily downloads as well as my money to purchase commercial use products to create them and while I don't expect everyone to say thank you (surprising to only get 22 comments for the 2000+ downloads) I do expect to at least get the exposure of potential new customers from people visiting my blog.
If this continues I will shut my blog down.
(I am putting this in bold because likely the people doing this don't read a damn word I have to say unless it jumps off the page at them :)
Please make sure to check out my post from yesterday regarding the personalized sets and the free Happy Kit elements I posted. I am not sure how long I will leave the personalized sets open to new names, it all depends on how busy my life gets!
I am crabby now and signing off :(
Do not share this link!!!!!








I am so sorry for the rude and inconsiderate people out there. You have every right to be cranky about it. Please know you are appreciated by all who love you.
Thank you for these new elements. I love the frames and buttons.
Posted by: Sue | April 29, 2009 at 12:35 PM
Wow! i can't believe that is still going on! (sharing links, i mean!) i so appreciate the effort you put into designing so many kits at one time - FOR FREE!! It makes a huge difference to me because i have only my social security plus a small stipend for part time work in a thrift store to live on, and if it weren't for the generosity of many excellent designers, i could not enjoy this hobby! i don't say "thank you" frequently enough, but i have such trouble seeing the code i have to put in to post a thank-you. It has taken me sometimes a half hour of attempts to input the code so i can post my comments. Sometimes i just give up - if there was another way to tell you "thanks" each time i download, i would certainly utilize that. But, i would NEVER share links, though i have given your web address. i enjoy your blog - you seem almost like family to me. So, thanks, a thousand times thanks!
Posted by: jayleigh | April 29, 2009 at 12:42 PM
Why do people have to be so mean!! I guess they have nothing better to do! Grow up people!!! Thanks for all you do Pam! You are greatly appreciated and the items you create are fantastic!
Posted by: michele b. | April 29, 2009 at 12:48 PM
I am so sorry that people are being so disrespectful to you in sharing your links. You should be angry! It is such a simple (and enjoyable thing) to come to your blog. I so enjoy your goodies but more so, I enjoy what you have to say and the sharing of life moments.
Thank you so veeeeeeeeeeeeery much
for all you do for us!!!! You are greatly appreciated!!!
Posted by: Michelle in MN | April 29, 2009 at 12:57 PM
Sorry that happened to you:( I just found your blog yesterday. A friend had a link to you. (the right way of coarse) I did download a kit. Thank you!!! I also added you as one of my favorites on my blog. Pardon my question, but it really is just curiosity. Does that count? I'm still learning etiquette.
Posted by: Lori | April 29, 2009 at 01:00 PM
Thank you very much for your great ideas und your hard work. I love your kits and the daily downloads!!!
Posted by: Tanja | April 29, 2009 at 01:05 PM
Thank you so much for these. I don't know why people are like this. So sorry you are having to go through this. I for one would hate to see you have to shut this down, but I always comment when I download something from you. I will keep this in my prayers that it stops. I hope some how people will stop being so dishonest.
Posted by: Ronda | April 29, 2009 at 01:05 PM
Thank you much for more additions to SMIRK & GIGGLES. Sorry, to hear about the link sharing problem you're having. Since I don't have a blog and still consider myself a newbie my question is - does this mean that someone is posting a link directly to your download instead of your blog? I love reading your blog and look forward to it everyday - even when you don't post a freebie.
Posted by: Sue | April 29, 2009 at 01:10 PM
I almost missed your last few pieces. Being away from my computer really messes me up. Sorry for your badly behaved GUESTS. Thanks for the goodies. Here is a smile I am sending you ;)
Posted by: geezee | April 29, 2009 at 01:11 PM
Thanks so much for your great stuff. You are so talented. Thanks so much.
Posted by: Kathryn | April 29, 2009 at 01:11 PM
I absolutely LOVE your stuff, and I am so sad that people are taking advantage of you! THANK YOU for sharing your talent!!!
Posted by: Leann | April 29, 2009 at 01:13 PM
I can only imagine how frustrating! I appreciate your generosity. Thanks for sharing!
Posted by: Malinda | April 29, 2009 at 01:15 PM
Cheats totally P**s me off. I don't understand that mindset...what ever is wrong with just doing it right? I'm sorry you're having to deal with this..you do such beautiful work for us..and sooooo much of it..this has to feel like a real slap in the face.
Now, thank you so much for sharing your gorgeous stuff and your beautiful children with us (always love reading about those three :)
Posted by: grammyscraps | April 29, 2009 at 01:17 PM
Those of us that have been around a while really, really appreciate and love you, not just your freebies.
But, I will also understand if you decide it isn't worth it any longer.
Posted by: nannasquared | April 29, 2009 at 01:20 PM
aww. people suck. Im sorry pam. Big hugs and thanks. I do try to say thank you everyday but just in case I missed one. heres an extra . THANK YOU! :O)
Posted by: breeoxd | April 29, 2009 at 01:22 PM
That is terrible, I'm so sorry people are being so rude and abusing your wonderful (and generous) talents. As always, thank you for the adorable elements and I love your work. Hang in there and I hope the jerks stop!
Posted by: Chris | April 29, 2009 at 01:28 PM
Oh, Pam. I am so sorry. Do you know if clicks in Google Reader show up on your blog? I know I use that and it just pops up a window. I have to actually click through to leave a comment. Does anyone know? Of course, I have to click through to the store though.
These flair buttons are especially cute. Thank you so much.
Posted by: Terebene | April 29, 2009 at 01:33 PM
Rude people suck. Don't let the jerks get you down.
I love your stuff and appreciate your generosity. Hang in there!
Posted by: Shel | April 29, 2009 at 01:34 PM
thanks so much for sharing such awesome kits. I am sorry that there are people out there who are so inconsiderate. Have a fabulous day!!!
Posted by: kk | April 29, 2009 at 01:35 PM
I'm sorry you have had to deal with so many inconsiderate people. Thank you for sharing your wonderful kits. I love your work!
Posted by: Laura | April 29, 2009 at 01:36 PM
I am so sorry you are having to deal with this again. It is so frustrating that people have to be like this and not appreciate you like we do. Thank you so much for all the time you put in creating your wonderful sets!!
Posted by: Sheri | April 29, 2009 at 01:40 PM
Thanks very much for sharing your work.
Posted by: belle | April 29, 2009 at 01:41 PM
I'm sorry people are passing out your download links :( I have you in my google reader list, so I see your blog every day. What sucks is that the people who are accessing your freebies the wrong way won't probably ever get to see the warning on your website, since they are bypassing it altogether. I hope it stops asap! I promise that most of us appreciate your hard work!
Posted by: Starr | April 29, 2009 at 01:43 PM
I'm truly sorry that you feel that way. You really should be happy that people are actually WANTING your stuff! It's not like they're stealing; remember you offer it for free...
There are so many people out there giving digi-scrapping stuff away for free now that it's not too difficult to just move on.
So, consider me insulted by your comment! I will NOT be following your blog anymore.
Oh, and no, I wasn't one of those people that was bypassing your blog to get your stuff; I actually READ your ranting.
Posted by: Me | April 29, 2009 at 01:44 PM
I totally understand your frustration. Being in a single-income family limits my spending on hobbies, so your site is one that I frequent because you have such great stuff. And I don't leave a comment every time, but I hope you know that you are greatly appreciated and I always pass on your blog link for friends interested in this awesome hobby. You spend so much time creating, it's nice for people to be exposed to YOU the designer, and other stuff you have for sale. It's just one extra click, after all. But I thoroughly enjoy reading about your family and collecting your awesome kits. Thank you thank you thank you!
Posted by: Lindsay | April 29, 2009 at 01:52 PM